“Freedom is not the absence of commitments, but the ability to choose – and commit myself to – what is best for me.” – Paulo Coelho
Clients often tell me they desire freedom. Great I say, it’s one of my core values, I totally get it. Let’s get this freedom train rolling!
But here’s the thing that messes them up…
They mistake freedom for a life without commitments.
Makes sense, right? No commitments = freedom to do whatever you want.
Then why are they still not happy?
Because commitments and freedom don’t work like that.
A lack of commitments doesn’t give you freedom. It gives you a boring, unfulfilled, and dissatisfied life.
Choose wisely, consciously and with your whole heart.
100% pure, untarnished commitment.
Which doesn’t necessarily mean you always want to (nice fantasy!) It simply means you take action on what you say you’re committed to. Because you said so.
And honouring your word is the key.
That is true freedom.